Couples sometimes find that just having time in marriage counseling can improve communication which usually decreases tension and renews a sense of partnership. It is also helpful to have a neutral place to discuss thoughts and feelings as well as some difficult issues away from your home. I think that most of us can relate to the concepts of having the same disagreements over and over.  I can help look you look for the compromise in the situation or sometimes realizing it's not really about what you arguing about, but needing something else in the relationship.
 Liz LaColla Counseling
2945 SW Wanamaker Drive
Topeka, Kansas 66614